Today is the last day of year 2009. While I am typing this, another 15 hours will bring us to a new year of 2010. A lot of things have happened in my life in the year of 2009. Both our career is sailing smoothly. Sam changed to a new company and face new challenges. I am still working with the same company which I need to travel about an hour from home. Initially, I thought that I would only work for a year in this firm due to long journey. Year comes to year, I have been working here for 3.5 years. It's never come into my mind that the management decided to shift to another building. Hence, when I started to work I was situated in very old building, old desk, old and torn chair, Now, I sit in the entirely new workstation and newly decoration. I can't believe that my boss will fork $$ for the new look of office. As a result of this, we are also wondering where is our half bonus which has not been distributed this year. I myself have learned more thorough out this year.
We have been quarrelling in the mid of this year. I hope that that was the last quarrel in our whole life. If such quarrel did happen again in my life, I would prefer to walk in my own way.I also understand that quarrel is quite frequent in every marriage. This may happen to every married couple. A wife will feel that the husband is not able to help her. A husband is egoist, unable to multi task, never heard what woman says, forgetful, irrational, need to be pampered. A husband will feel that the wife never understand that he is busy, need to concentrate to work, burden with office politics, wife is not gentle, caring to him. It is just a matter of how both husband and wife to balance out their life to each other.
I also have changed maid 3 times within half year. After my teenager maid left, I was down with luck of choosing maids. The previous 2 maids which I used got attitude problem. Hence, we decided to get another nationality of maid. We use Fili maid now. She seems to be care to Josh much. Hope that she can finish her contract. I am planning to use maid till Josh go to P1. that will be another 5 – 6 years.
In this year, there is the first time we travel with Mom and Dad and Inlaws to China. All of us enjoy the moment we travel together very much.
Last but not the least, my resolution for next year is as follows:
1. Shed off another 2-5 kgs. It seems impossible to shed off 5 kgs though. :)
2. Take up some photography course.
3. Enough of studying my professional course.
4. Bring parents go for holidays.
5. Sign up swimming lesson for Derick.
